BossLady B is bringing the energy, confidence and unapologetic attitude of Birmingham clubs straight into her music. A former bartender and bottle girl, she understands the nightlife industry from the inside out, and that experience has helped shape a sound built for good energy, strip-club vibes and the DJs who keep the party moving.
Influenced by artists like GloRilla, BossLady B is carving out her own lane with music that encourages listeners, particularly Black women, to embrace their confidence and say exactly how they feel. Born from a negative social media post, her breakout single, “Spennanightbag,” has a story that is almost as unexpected as its viral success.
In this interview with EXOTICDANCER.com, BossLady B talks about turning hate into inspiration, the influence of her years working in the club, and the importance of bringing a little more honesty and confidence to the conversation. For DJs and entertainers looking for an introduction to her catalog, she has one clear recommendation: start with “Spennanightbag,” which is available for download for all adult nightclub DJs via StripJointsMusic.com.
ED: A lot of your music centers around empowerment, ambition and confidence. Why are those themes so important to you?
BOSSLADY B: I just feel Black women need more real, and a lot of Black women don’t keep it real. So, I just wanna bring real back. I just want to spice everything up, keep it real and encourage listeners to say how they really feel. To be more confident in themselves.
ED: As a former bartender and bottle girl, you’ve seen how clubs run from the inside. Does that experience influence your music at all?
BOSSLADY B: A lot, a lot, a lot. As a bartender at a strip club, my music is more club music with strip vibes. You know, good energy. It all plays a lot in what I rap about. So yeah, it helps a lot, and I can go ask the DJ to play my song.
ED: You cite GloRilla as one of your influences. What have you learned from artists like her while developing your own sound?
BOSSLADY B: That’s a good question. I just like how she raps. I like that she keeps it real. I like that she’s herself. I like the way she dresses. I like her sound. I learned a lot from her. She inspired me to make music.
ED: Tell us about your single “Spennanightbag.” What’s the song about and what inspired you to write it?
BOSSLADY B: It’s actually a song that came from hate. A female made a post about me one day, and she was like, “When they gonna tell this such and such she can’t rap?” And everybody shared a video of me playing around in the mirror with a song like, “Grab that spennanightbag.” And since she made the video so popular and I saw so much fame come of it, I thought, “Let me make it into a song.”
ED: So you went viral early, even before your career started? That’s awesome.
BOSSLADY B: Funny thing is, it’s all off of hate. Unfortunately, the internet can be pretty negative.
ED: You worked with the AMG Twinz on the “Grab Dat Remix.” How did that collab come about?
BOSSLADY B: The collab is pretty good. We just went on a video shoot, that’s all.
ED: Our audience is made up of strip club DJs from around the country, as well as entertainers, managers and music fans. If they’re looking for the perfect introduction to your catalog, which song should they download first?
BOSSLADY B: “Spennanightbag.”
ED: There you go. Have you already had DJs or entertainers tell you one of your songs became part of their regular rotation?
BOSSLADY B: Yes, I have.
ED: What was that like to hear?
BOSSLADY B: I’m not gonna lie, I love it. I had about three or four DJs play my music. I’ve been on DJ Elf’s radio station almost every week. He’s made my song a priority. Also, Dirty South Radio played it.
ED: Where can people connect with you online?
BOSSLADY B: Follow @brit_the_celeb on Instagram and BossLady B on Facebook and YouTube.
